Assuming this is a KVM VPS it could be roadcasts or just switches with expired MAC tables spewing unknown unicast to all ports, etc.
Run a tcpdump and see what the traffic is.
yeah it's VPS probably KVM
tcpdump outputs this, like a ton per second
17:31:59.486534 IP6 2001:19f0:5c00:8000::1 > ff02::1:ff92:6af9: ICMP6, neighbor solicitation, who has 2001:19f0:5c00:94c1:6cd7:94f:7a92:6af9, length 32
17:31:59.486637 IP6 2001:19f0:5c00:8000::1 > ff02::1:ff00:64: ICMP6, neighbor solicitation, who has 2001:19f0:5c00:94c4::64, length 32
17:31:59.486641 IP6 2001:19f0:5c00:8000::1 > ff02::1:ff00:64: ICMP6, neighbor solicitation, who has 2001:19f0:5c00:94c3::64, length 32
17:31:59.486757 IP6 2001:19f0:5c00:8000::1 > ff02::1:ff00:64: ICMP6, neighbor solicitation, who has 2001:19f0:5c00:94c4::64, length 32
17:31:59.486761 IP6 2001:19f0:5c00:8000::1 > ff02::1:ff89:4849: ICMP6, neighbor solicitation, who has 2001:19f0:5c00:94c2:f021:f49:7189:4849, length 32
17:31:59.486820 IP6 2001:19f0:5c00:8000::1 > ff02::1:ff08:3737: ICMP6, neighbor solicitation, who has 2001:19f0:5c00:94c6:5400:ff:fe08:3737, length 32
17:31:59.486862 IP6 2001:19f0:5c00:8000::1 > ff02::1:ff92:6af9: ICMP6, neighbor solicitation, who has 2001:19f0:5c00:94c1:6cd7:94f:7a92:6af9, length 32
17:31:59.486941 IP6 2001:19f0:5c00:8000::1 > ff02::1:ff00:64: ICMP6, neighbor solicitation, who has 2001:19f0:5c00:94c4::64, length 32
17:31:59.487038 IP6 2001:19f0:5c00:8000::1 > ff02::1:ff00:64: ICMP6, neighbor solicitation, who has 2001:19f0:5c00:94c3::64, length 32
I'd say this is SSH bruteforce traffic from attackers / hackers. Try changing your SSH port to something unusual and see if the traffic decreases.
it is changed, no ssh attemps noticed so far. I monitor them
obviosly i have no idea in which logs to check given the situation described in OP, but thanks for stating the obvious. Much helpful. You are great person!