For now, just the bare OS. Eventually, I'd like to get an nginx, PHP, and noSQL setup going.
		
		
	 
apt-get remove apache* bind9* samba* sasl* exim* sendmail*
>add dotdeb repo's
apt-get update
apt-get install nginx php5-fpm
Lower the nginx worker count and  php5-fpm pool to 1 worker, disable nginx caching.  Can't help you with noSQL as I run mySQL.  This is from my Secure Dragon Xen running nginx, php5-fpm, mySQL hosting my WordPress install and some monitoring software.
root@xen:~# uptime && free -m
 02:18:04 up 287 days, 19:34,  1 user,  load average: 0.21, 0.08, 0.02
             total       used       free     shared    buffers     cached
Mem:            89         85          4          0         16         42
-/+ buffers/cache:         26         63
Swap:          255          6        249
In that example I am actually running php 2 workers so my memory could be quite a bit lower, my OpenVZ's are even lower on memory usage.  I don't bother with dropbear but I do usually install rsyslog.  Don't forget to lower the PHP max memory size so applications like wordpress don't try and grab more ram then you have.
From an OpenVZ looking-glass node running nginx + php5-fpm and monitoring software:
	
	
	
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		19:41:32 up 4 days, 18:44,  1 user,  load average: 0.12, 0.03, 0.01
             total       used       free     shared    buffers     cached
Mem:           128         15        113          0          0         6
-/+ buffers/cache:          9        118
Swap:          128          0        128