Host your own, that way you have full and complete control over where the email is sent and received.
Location: Eastern Canada, US East Coast, US Central
Oh, nevermind.
As an update to this for anyone looking at something similar. I went ahead and got a service from Torqhost and so far so good, very good connectivity to Sweden with good peering around eastern-europe
Would recommend!
I usually just chmod it when i need it, usually works. If you need permanent access you should probably rename the dir + password-prompt + fail2ban it.