If you were not physically attracted to someone would you still be with them? Example, you meet someone they are amazing however you have no attraction to them. Their inside qualities are everything you look for in a significant other yet you you have no sexual desire or attraction to their physical appearance.
But, while I agree with the idealistic and intellectual, be they liberal pursuits of equality, never have I seen someone willfully pick a certifiably ugly person while having pecking selection.
I can find you a multitude of cultures (with modern Western culture being one of the worst offenders) that hypocritically state it is wrong to judge on appearance, and yet "Lookism" is a dominant feature of the culture (i.e. people who have physical traits that the culture considers to be "attractive" are rewarded based solely on those stereotypical physical traits and are more likely to be perceived favorably, are more likely to get better jobs, etc, etc.).
The age old "blond or brunette" debate has its origins in northern Europe where brunette (i.e. brown) and blond are the two most common hair colors.. The overwhelming majority of people in the world have black hair...
way to miss the point
You better not be point that at me....The tools trying to claim "objectification is wrong, waaaaaaaah"... just way too damn funny. Especially considering the people it's coming from
The objectification came from the fact that he only stated blonde or brunette. Does that mean black haired women are not females? Why should they be excluded?Just lol @ the objectification. We all have our preferences this doesn't mean we are treating them as an object. All humans pick based on preference it doesn't even have to be a preference of looks it can be something else.
With that said - I like blondes
(Although I have a brunette girlfriend.)
Remember everyone has their own preferences and views when it comes to this or even discussing about this. That's perfectly fine. Just please respect each other's decisions and opinions. I'm not knocking on anyone and this applies to everyone on this thread, just please treat others the way you want to be treated.
If you have personal issues with me, you know where my inbox is.
I'm starting a new topic: PIES: freshly baked or half eaten?Alright folks!
Lets just relax and chill out
I was thinking half baked....
Every time I read that I see pheasant. Eat some bird.
With enough effort and engineering one can fit anything. All puns intended.
? Choice selection of funny words with fitting and a box I chuckled, but of course I share your view generally. Guess I see it both ways. Men haven't been demoted in importance by accident. Rampant ahh single mothers and not always because the father is just disinterested. Sure plenty of men just are two legged wiener transport devices, always been. Sure men are driven hormone wise to be more aggressive, obnoxious and brutish. Switch that all up and you have.... well I won't go into it... But it's not good for society, families, etc. Yep. It was probably how I was raised but I don't care what people look like. Plain and simple.
