I do set up custom stuff but relays would get listed by spamhaus and yes that happend to me on my torrent website.Let's try that again, shall we.
Watch, I can do it too - "Most people that bitch about Spamhaus are spammers."
Now an elucidated reply, since you seem to keep interpreting blunt truth as 'mean'. Historically, you have shown yourself to be punishingly uneducated in this field. It's a reasonable assumption that you haven't actually researched the statistics on sendmail usage. For example, I personally have a hand in the administration of several dozen independant websites - not a single one of those setups uses sendmail. Just because *you* may have to rely on panels with pre-fab services doesn't make the same true of everyone.
They seam to list relays with no spam even if its a private relay.