We use a lot of video chat where I work and it's fun. Remote staff fly in every few months. It's reasonably affordable.. There's no reason for Aldryic to be picking up the payments since he'd have to then go through the trouble of adding it to his bank account and transferring it to me. We don't have a real office where we all gather or anything.
The only time we really see each other is during company vacations
Usuallly by the time a business reaches your size (actually much earlier), it has company bank accounts. So this transferring stuff just sounds perplexing. Maybe the international angle makes it more complicated or something.
We do international payments by wire transfer, but I guess the amounts are usually in the K$ and up, so the fees don't eat too much of it. Probably wouldn't work for VPS.