Well, I'm at a loss here really. I was going to sample some misc providers with 'premium' networks, non-lowend providers, and really I am impressed but without filtering this place won't exist.
From what I am reading about CloudFlare, which I was attracted to even though it costs $200/mo, was that I could choose ANY provider, anywhere, and have protection. But if you sneeze too loud I think Cloudflare will drop you and pass all traffic straight to the host. These big boy providers will just auto-null me as soon as that happens.
So now, I don't know what the hell I am doing. Probably still moving to the US East Coast or central US (Chicago) but need to find a solid filtering solution that doesn't act wonky occasionally or cause other random issues. <sighs>
Something will be done, eventually, to fix the performance issues and everything else. I just need to figure out the who, what, where and why.